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2008
Making Time for the Things that are Important to You
While I do not dare to compare the launch of this website with the birth of my (now almost 2-year old) son, there were definitely similar moments of fear, excitement and even some pushing to get it out into the world. I’m now experiencing the same feelings of joy, relief and excitement as it begins to grow and take on a life of its own.
We all have lives outside of the office, things that compete for our time and energy. That’s why, as a business owner and mom, I am so committed to the services that The Modern Concierge provides. It’s about letting someone else conquer the items on your to-do list that always get pushed to the bottom, so that you have more time outside of work to enjoy the things that are most important and enjoyable to you. What’s important to me is my family, my work, spending time with friends and even trying to fit in some “me” time.
What’s important to you?
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2008
Executive vs. Personal Assistant
It’s been a true benefit for me to have an executive assistant, and I’ve been lucky to have several great ones over the years. They have done everything a man can dream of and more: listened carefully to me, cleaned my desk, scheduled my meetings and even gotten me a latte every once in awhile (after all, Starbucks is practically next door). Knowing my executive assistants could do everything I asked, you would think my life would have been so easy.
But it’s wasn’t - I could never ask my assistant to pick up my dry cleaning, find rare wines on the internet, clean out my garage, or complete the many other everyday chores I needed done. In my industry, these types of errands were (and rightfully so) beyond the scope of the professional obligations of an executive assistant. Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not crying tears of distress because I’ve had to walk my own dog and wait on hold while calling the cable company for an appointment, it’s just that now I know there are ways to make my life easier and my free-time more fulfilling. While my assistants have always been a part of that puzzle, now that I am working at The Modern Concierge, my eyes are opened to what is possible with just that little extra help. Life is good!
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2008
More to Life Than Money?
Deloitte recently released a report about Competing for Talent in the telecommunications and technology fields.
Their findings show that “big salaries and bonuses might help solve the talent problem for awhile, but they don’t address the fundamental shift that is occurring in the workforce. Workers today aren’t as interested as they used to be in hefty compensation packages and fancy retirement plans. What they really want – more than anything else – is direct and personal control over when, where, and how they work.”
What is interesting to me about Deloitte’s report is how they respond to the stigma attached to the phrase “work-life balance.” Deloitte’s research shows that work-life balance doesn’t have to be a corporate euphemism for working less; it can be about working differently. The reports concludes that “to attract their fair share of talent, companies should consider adopting programs that meet the needs of the company – and each employee – instead of offering people big financial incentives, but then forcing them to adapt to the requirements of the job.”
This can also be a blessing in disguise. With all this recession talk, your company might no longer be in the position to give big bonuses or raises as often as you’d like. The good news from the Deloitte report is that you have other options. There is hope, and there are ways to retain your workforce and keep them motivated and happy through these tight economic times.
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2008
The Brilliance of Balance
Until very recently, I have not been hugely successful at “balancing” the different aspects of my life - my nature is to go full-force in most things that I take on. A new relationship: I disappear for weekends at a time; a new business idea: it’s all I can think about; planning a charity fundraiser: you would think it was my fulltime job.
So it’s actually quite surprising that my job is to help busy professionals achieve balance. I feel that the reason I am good at what I do - and why I understand the challenges involved - is because I discovered how to do it for myself. I realized that if I devote a disparate amount of time to a new relationship, my business or charity work, the other areas of my life suffer. So I learned how to make my time equally available to each endeavor to achieve a state of equilibrium that works for me.
I’m not saying it’s easy, or that it happens overnight - it’s a process that requires assessing priorities, making changes, and asking for help when needed. And I’m not saying that I’m always on track. But I do know that when I have sense of balance, I feel brilliant. And what a great way to feel!
What makes you feel brilliant in your life?
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2008
Do You Have be Self-Employed to Find Balance?
In my eternal quest for all things balanced (both professionally and personally), I was thrilled to have the opportunity to attend an event last week entitled Round Table Discussion: Finding Balance as a Mother. The event was sponsored by the Step Up Women’s Network, a wonderful non-profit organization dedicated to bettering the lives for all women through youth mentorship programs, networking events and professional development opportunities.
About 60 women from around Los Angeles, gathered to discuss their thoughts, challenges and solutions to finding balance. As a working mom myself, the comment that stood out to me the most was from a woman who said the only way mothers can work and have balance is to start their own business. If this is true, what a challenge to the traditional work-place! The skills a parent uses daily- creativity, ability to multi-task, problem solving- are invaluable assets to most businesses. Is your business doing everything it can to keep your employees (who are also parents) happy, satisfied and balanced so that you won’t lose them to another venture?